Personal development

Articles about personal development.

What helps leaders and managers to grow and develop – MENTORING DO!

 Growing leadership expertise in a short period of time within an organization is a continual challenge. The speed of projects and the speed for innovation have increased so that we are shoving people into positions of management and leadership in an ever-increasing pace. How are they going to learn? But more important, how are they going to be able to quickly apply what they have learned within their organizational culture and business environment? In the past, an individual would learn skills and knowledge through training, education and experience, and the organization could afford to wait around for him/her to come up to speed. But today, organizations need to have their people learn – and be able to apply that learning – more quickly.

 

Studies have proven that there are limits as to how fast you can drive education and training and have it be effective. Also, due to economic constraints within organizations, many times the problem is not how fast to drive the education and training, but how to even find available dollars and resources to get it to individuals that are destined to lead the organization now and in the future. What can organizations do to help solve this dilemma and assist in the transition between “education” and “experience”? Mentoring can assist. 

 

By definition a Mentor is an individual with the experience, knowledge, and/or skills in a specific content area who is able, willing, and available to share this information with another individual. There is nothing in this definition that denotes that the Mentor must be older, of a higher job grade level, or have been with the organization for a longer period of time. The most important aspect is that the Mentor has “experience”, “knowledge” and “skills” that he/she wants to share with someone who needs them. In many cases, it may not even be the “knowledge” or the “skills”, but the “experience” – the application of that knowledge – that is important.

 

We have learned that under the direction of the Mentor, the learner is given immediate access to valuable insights and past experiences. Within mentoring relationships, individuals are learning by doing. Individuals are able to practice what they are learning. Another advantage of mentoring to an organization is that it showcases those individuals that have the necessary skills/competencies to coach and develop others. Many times these are the same types of skills/competencies that an organization wants displayed in its leadership. Even individuals that do not wish to take on a “managerial” or “supervisory” role within the organization can satisfy a need to “lead” through a mentoring relationship as well as allowing the organization to tap into a greater pool of talent/skill.

 

Many times individuals do not get any experience in specific coaching roles until after they have been given the title of “manager” or “supervisor”. This means they are in a reactive mode of learning these skills/competencies. If individuals have the opportunity to learn and practice these skills/competencies as a Mentor before they obtain the title of “manager” or “supervisor”, it is proactive and much better for them as well as the organization.

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Why You Exist — Finding and Defining Your Major Purpose

 

 

This is one of the most important installments of the process.

 

Here, we will delve into some of the great This is one of the most important installments of the process.

 

Here, we will delve into some of the great questions of our humanity and individual lives: Why are you here? What is your life’s purpose? What difference will you make? How will you be remembered? Who are you? What do you stand for? What values do you represent, protect and fight for? What are you willing to die for and live for?

 

To read more, klick here:

 darrenhardy.success.com/2010/01/db10-purpose-goal-setting/

 

For the worksheet, klick here:

 

www.success.com/pdf/DB10_worksheet_set_1.pdf

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Goals/Goal-Setting

 

The major reason for setting a goal is for what it makes of you to accomplish it. What it makes of you will always be the far-greater value than what you get.

 

When Andrew Carnegie died, they discovered a sheet of paper upon which he had written one of the major goals of his life: to spend the first half of his life accumulating money and to spend the last half of his life giving it all away. And he did!

 

Some people are disturbed by those tough days because all they have is the days. They haven’t designed or described or defined the future.

 

Goals. There’s no telling what you can do when you get inspired by them. There’s no telling what you can do when you believe in them. And there’s no telling what will happen when you act upon them.

 

We all need lots of powerful long-range goals to help us past the short-term obstacles.

 

The ultimate reason for setting goals is to entice you to become the person it takes to achieve them.

 

Don’t set your goals too low. If you don’t need much, you won’t become much.

 

If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you. If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you. Whatever good things we build end up building us.

 

We all have two choices: We can make a living or we can design a life.

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Designing the Best 10 Years of Your Life – introduction

 

We are entering a brand new decade.

Think about where you were 10 years ago, when we began a new millennium, the year 2000. Seems like only yesterday, right?

 

Are you where you’d thought you’d be 10 years later, when you looked forward back then?

 

Are you leading the life you envisioned?

 

Do you have the income, lifestyle, freedom, health, relationships, poise and skills you thought you would have by now?

 

Well, now you get another chance to look forward to the next 10 years. This time, what are you going to do different so the next 10 years aren’t just more of the same?

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Design Your Best Year Ever!

 

What do you want to achieve in 2010? Have you developed your goals? Would you like to earn more money, grow your business, become No. 1 in your marketplace, energize your relationships, find your passion, get fit and feel good?

Based on 20+ years of refined study, practice and execution, the Design Your Best Year Ever workbook and planning guide teaches the specific system SUCCESS magazine Publisher Darren Hardy developed and used to design, execute, follow through on and achieve BIG goals.

Whatever your goals, there is a formula for planning and achieving big things in life. This system is that formula. You CAN achieve your wildest ambitions in 2010!

ONLY $24.95—includes workbook and downloadable e-book version so you can start right away! Watch a video introduction from Darren Hardy, and learn more here now!

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Designing the Best 10 Years of Your Life


Your Personal Strategic Plan for Achieving Lifelong Goals
by Darren Hardy

Starting January, 5th 2010
 
Before they get started next week here is a personal message of WHY Darren Hardy is doing this program.  And why it is for FREE. And a little bit more about HOW it will work.

View his video message below:

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 Design Best 10 Years

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Your Dream Begins Today

What will your life be like when you’ve achieved your most deeply held dreams?

 

Let’s take a look at how you can start living your dreams this very day.

 

Do you have a dream, a vision of the life you wish to live?

 


How specific is that dream?

 


How clear is that vision?

 


How do you intend to reach it?

 


What obstacles stand in your way?

 


Are your fears holding you back or are you using them to move you forward?

Your fears can actually lead you to success. Fear is an intense emotion. But that doesn’t mean it has to control you, or even stop you. Fear can prepare you and push you forward just as strongly as it can hold you back. Fear heightens your awareness and increases your physical strength. Fear brings your mind to sharp focus. With all that going for you, does it make sense to just run and hide? Of course not. Fear gets you in shape to take action!

 

Are you waiting for things to get better before moving ahead? If you’re serious about success, you need to start taking action today. If you’re waiting for things to be perfect, you’ll wait forever and nothing will ever get done.

 

The way to achieve is to bloom where you’re planted, to do what you can, where you are, with what you have. It’s easy to think up excuses for not taking action. “If only I had more hours in the day. If only I had a better job. If only I could meet the right person.” But excuses won’t bring you anything of value. You’ve got to change your “if only” into an “I will.” “I will make better use of my time. I will work on improving my career. I will create and nurture my relationships.”

 

Take a chance. Have faith in yourself. Your circumstances will improve when you make the effort to improve them. Start where you are right now. You have everything it takes to reach for whatever you desire. Stop wishing. Use your time, your energy, your thoughts and efforts to make it happen! You’ll be glad you did!

 

 An article by Les Brown

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How to Get More from Your Mentor

 

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A senior publishing executive at William Morris once told me how baffled she was when an aspiring literary agent asked her to be a mentor. She looked at me and said, "She’s got to make me want to be her mentor. Isn’t she supposed to do something for me?" The answer is a definitive yes.

A mentor can prove invaluable when it comes to providing insight into your organization, inside information about the politics of the place, or just some over-the-shoulder advice about who to work with and who to stay away from. Mentorship, however, is a two-way street — and you’ve got to figure out how to repay the favor and make the relationship work for both of you.

 To read the whole article, click here:

blogs.hbr.org/cs/2009/09/how_to_get_more_from_your_ment.html

 

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